At the Cana wedding, Mary informs Yeshuʿ that the wine has run out. His enigmatic response begins with the phrase: τί ἐμοὶ καὶ σοί, γύναι; Literally, “What to me and to you, woman?”
This construction, grammatically known as a dative-dative idiom, has parallels in both Greek and Hebrew expressions (cf. Hebrew: מָה־לִי וָלָךְ). It often implies disassociation, a challenge of expectation, or a clarification of relational boundaries.
In this lesson, we’ll analyze the syntax, morphology, semantics, and theological import of this phrase, which sets the tone for the Johannine theology of Jesus’ “hour.”
Λέγει αὐτῇ ὁ Ἰησοῦς· τί ἐμοὶ καὶ σοί, γύναι; οὔπω ἥκει ἡ ὥρα μου.… Learn Koine Greek